Developing a Positive Relationship with Negative Emotions, with Robert Biswas-Diener
In this episode, we focus on:
- Robert’s current work on the pursuit of happiness
- Defining immediately’s “consolation disaster”
- Why individuals search consolation, and the significance of experiencing discomfort
- The evolutionary origins [of] destructive feelings
- How your choices have an effect on your happiness
- The distinction between wanting and liking; how they affect our happiness
- Three methods to exercise destructive emotion tolerance
- When destructive feelings intervene with our capability to perform well on this planet
- Robert’s tackle therapeutic drug interventions
Hey, all people, Chris Kresser right here. Welcome to a different episode of Revolution Health Radio. This week, I’m excited to welcome again Robert Biswas-Diener as my visitor.
I spoke with Robert on the primary episode about optimistic psychology. Robert is one of many foremost specialists on this planet on this subject, and we mentioned how vital the shift was from an unique give attention to what can go mistaken and on disordered psychological and emotional states, temper problems like anxiety, depression, schizophrenia, psychosis, and many others., which is historically what psychology centered on most, the entire pathologies and the issues that can go mistaken, towards how can we make issues go right. What can we do that contributes to happiness, well-being, and psychological well being? That’s actually the contribution that optimistic psychology has made to our general understanding of human well being and well-being.
In this episode, we’re going to speak somewhat bit about a number of the ideas in certainly one of Robert’s books referred to as The Upside of Your Dark Side. So, as Robert will share, this e-book was written in response to a few of what he noticed occurring in maybe the favored psychology world, the place optimistic psychology was being misinterpreted to imply that we must always solely ever expertise optimistic feelings or states, that we must always do every thing we will to keep away from or suppress destructive feelings, and that happiness or completely happy states of being must be the unique focus in our lives. And as you’ll learn on this episode, that’s by no means what the optimistic psychology motion suggests. And so-called destructive feelings can even have a fairly vital evolutionary function.
We’re going to discover questions like whether or not we’re in a consolation disaster, and why the power to tolerate psychological, emotional, and even bodily discomfort is so vital to our improvement and progress as human beings. What we miss out on after we attempt to suppress or ignore so-called destructive feelings, and what function they actually do have, from an evolutionary perspective. We’re going to discuss why people are generally not so good as we’d prefer to be at making selections that result in happiness. We’ll speak in regards to the vital distinction between wanting and liking and the affect that has on our happiness. And we’ll discuss some actually concrete sensible methods that we will make use of for rising our capability to expertise destructive feelings and learn from them, learn the data, the teachings that they’re attempting to carry to us. We’ll also speak somewhat bit about when it is likely to be a good suggestion to suppress or ignore destructive feelings.
I actually love this episode. I believe one of the crucial sensible and instantly helpful issues we will do in our life is to determine out methods for rising our happiness and our well-being. And I believe you’ll get so much out of this and be capable to make use of these methods not solely with your self, however also should you’re a mum or dad, to have the ability to mannequin these and share them with your youngsters. It’s so vital for youths’ improvement to have the ability to perceive and embrace a number of the matters that we’re going to be speaking about within the present. So, relying on the age of your youngsters, chances are you’ll even wish to hearken to a number of the episode, if in case you have older youngsters, youngsters or above, I’d suppose. But I actually acquired so much out of this myself, and I hope you will, too. So I carry you Robert Biswas-Diener.
Chris Kresser: Robert, it’s such a pleasure to have you ever again on the present.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Thank you a lot for having me, Chris.
Chris Kresser: On the final podcast we did, we talked so much about optimistic psychology and the idea of specializing in our strengths and constructing on our strengths somewhat than fixing what’s damaged and talked so much in regards to the contributions that optimistic psychology has made. And this time, I wish to speak in regards to the, I don’t know if it’s the flip side, however perhaps a special angle or an enlargement or some nuance associated to that, which you talked about in your e-book, The Upside of Your Dark Side.
And perhaps an excellent place to start out would simply be to speak about why you even felt the necessity to write that e-book with your co-author within the first place.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Sure, nice, nice query. There was really a catalyzing second for me. I used to be a part of a gaggle assembly at Harvard, and we have been consulting on a happiness mission. So it was very a lot about happiness, positivity, optimism, mindfulness, you’re listening to all of these sorts of buzzwords thrown round. And we broke for lunch. And a woman stated to me, “I’ve to confess that my canine died this morning.” This appears like an apocryphal story, [but] I promise that it’s true. She stated, “My canine died this morning, and what can I do to be completely happy?”
And it actually sort of took me aback, as a result of my reply to her was, “You shouldn’t be.”
Chris Kresser: Right.
Robert Biswas-Diener: “Why on earth would you suppose you’ll should be completely happy?” And this [was] well over a decade before the time period “poisonous positivity” was coined. But I noticed that a possible draw back of the optimistic psychology motion, of the recognition of happiness science, is that individuals then suppose, well, happiness is a selection. And if I’m not completely happy, it means I’m making the mistaken selections and I’m obligated to flip this change. And so my co creator, Todd Kashdan, and myself, we noticed an actual want for a righting of the ship or a balancing. We didn’t wish to throw out optimistic psychology, but we simply needed so as to add an vital footnote maybe.
Chris Kresser: That it’s actually one thing, a software that we will use, or a set of methodologies or approaches that we will use and happiness is a byproduct, maybe, of a few of these practices or approaches or ways of occupied with issues. But it’s not the one, or the supreme finish objective. And it’s not essentially, there are some downsides even to an obsessive pursuit of happiness when it comes at the price of listening to the messages that we’d get from a number of the emotional states that we label as destructive.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Absolutely. I believe that’s certainly one of them, that you simply named. There are simply masses and a great deal of downsides. Although, I do wish to reinforce what you stated, which is happiness is extremely fascinating; it feels nice, it’s useful, [and] it appears to spice up our immune system somewhat bit. I do suppose that it is a worthwhile pursuit. I simply suppose this is a case of exaggeration the place you discover individuals saying, “I solely wish to be completely happy,” or “I’ve been persistently completely happy for the final 10 years,” which strains credulity.
Chris Kresser: So, one other factor that you and Todd discuss within the e-book and perhaps was a part of the explanation that you determined to put in writing this e-book within the first place is what we’d name a consolation disaster. Where, so somewhat than me even attempting to outline that time period, why don’t you simply inform us what you imply by that and why is the power to tolerate discomfort really vital?
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, completely. So first, I’ll simply say that you’re going to begin seeing this far and wide. I’ve seen a few books printed on this subject not too long ago. You see it on social media. So I don’t suppose I’m going to get credit score for it, and I don’t essentially suppose that I deserve credit score for it. But I actually was speaking about this a few years in the past. The concept that within the fashionable period, we’re extra snug than at any time before. [If] you wish to purchase a space-age foam mattress that will conform precisely to your body, you are able to do that, as if simply the common mattress wasn’t cozy sufficient. And this consolation extends throughout all dimensions. We are much less affected person than ever as a result of communication is now instantaneous. If I advised you that it will take you 9 minutes to make microwave popcorn, you’d suppose that’s too lengthy to attend. Nine minutes, that’s loopy.
So simply throughout the board by way of time, bodily consolation, and psychological consolation, we have now extra entry than ever before. Now, I wish to be cautious right here as a result of I’ve obtained some criticism that individuals are like, “Oh, however you’re simply speaking about higher class individuals or center class individuals.” And sure, actually, these individuals have extra entry to luxuries and conveniences. But even individuals who live in, let’s say, poor neighborhoods within the United States, have entry to infrastructure, electrical energy, issues that even the kings and queens of outdated didn’t actually have entry to. So the attention-grabbing factor is, we’ve gotten extra snug. I believe there’s been this ironic impact; we’ve gotten much less snug with discomfort. So in surveys, should you ask individuals how lengthy might you live exterior or what wouldn’t it be prefer to go to the toilet exterior on a regular basis, or what should you had to simply not actually have a tent, however shelter exterior, individuals don’t actually like that. And you discover this throughout the board.
What in case your youngsters didn’t have a proper protected playground, however they only had a bunch of tractor tires and hay bales? Well, mother and father flip out to be involved about that. They view that as harmful. They view youngsters driving their bike to high school as harmful, although visitors accidents involving youngsters have declined steadily over time. So we simply have the sense that all of these destructive, unsafe, insecure emotions are very, very uncomfortable for us. Our tolerance of them, simply I argue, appears to be happening.
Chris Kresser: Right. So what? An individual listening to this may say, “So what? Comfort’s nice; I adore it. I like my yoga mat to have Wi Fi in it so it may inform me the best way to do the poses. And I just like the coffeemaker to be programmed so that it may make a cup of espresso to be prepared right once I get up. What’s mistaken with that?” Why not simply wipe discomfort fully off the map so that we will live just like the individuals within the Pixar film, WALL-E?
Robert Biswas-Diener: And there are floating chairs. I’ve to ask you, Chris, in all honesty, are there actually yoga mats with WiFi?
Chris Kresser: I’m not joking. I noticed an advert for this like two days in the past. And I used to be like, oh my gosh. This is pushing the boundaries of credulity, even for somebody who’s already looking out for this type of nonsense. But yeah, I imply, why not? Why not wipe discomfort off the map if we will?
Robert Biswas-Diener: Well, as a result of we will’t. Because some quantity of discomfort isn’t simply bodily discomfort; it’s emotional discomfort. So suppose, for instance, of being caught in rush hour visitors. Humans, particularly in industrialized massive cities, don’t seem to be they’re on the cusp of wiping out the discomforts related with that sort of visitors. But individuals get pissed off; they get bored. It’s the emotional discomforts that you merely can not keep away from. You’re going to really feel irritated in life, you’re going to really feel bored, you’re going to really feel confused, [and] you’re going to really feel all of those so-called destructive feelings. And if what you do is attempt to keep away from them since you’re attempting to simply keep away from discomfort, well, then you’re going to have this type of distant, bizarre, estranged relationship with this very facet of your personal psychology.
It’s like being a stranger to your self. So individuals become, I believe, rapidly, overwhelmed with their very own destructive feelings. It’s why individuals are fast to flip on a TV or uncork wine or go for a run or any variety of methods that differ from healthy to unhealthy. But in an effort to not simply expertise these destructive feelings.
We typically hear individuals striving for pure happiness. But experiencing discomfort, and living by way of destructive feelings, is also a part of the journey. In this episode of RHR, I speak with Robert Biswas-Diener in regards to the evolutionary origins of destructive feelings, the best way to exercise consciousness of our feelings, and decision-making methods for optimum well being and happiness. #chriskresser
Chris Kresser: Right. So, there are a variety of authors who’ve, and simply thinkers who’ve particularly utilized this to youthful generations, notably college age adults. And Jonathan Haidt involves thoughts with his e-book, The Coddling of the American Mind. And I’ve mentioned this briefly. But let’s speak somewhat bit in regards to the explicit relevance of this aversion to psychological and emotional discomfort for younger individuals. And I can’t consider I’m saying that.
Robert Biswas-Diener: (crosstalk) demographic.
Chris Kresser: But it’s true, right? I’m not a younger [person] anymore.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Sure, yeah.
Chris Kresser: Just at coronary heart. Kids today, school youngsters, like individuals in school. So there’s this rising motion for protected areas and to guard individuals from concepts that is likely to be threatening or not directly offensive to them. How does this play into what we’re speaking about right here? And what will we lose as a society? And what do individuals lose as people after they have the assumption that they must fully insulate themselves from psychological or emotional discomfort?
Robert Biswas-Diener: Sure, completely. This is a tricky query, as a result of I believe the true concern is the potential of throwing the newborn out with the bathwater. Because on the one hand, the traits we’re seeing in larger training and academia come from a really well-meaning place, and from reliable considerations. There are college students that have these reliable complaints. I’ve been a sufferer of racism. I’ve been sidelined as an LGBTQ recognized individual. So I’m sick of getting pushed round and I wish to do one thing about that. Whether protected area is the right factor for that, I don’t know.
So there are reliable complaints. But then I believe on the excessive, the opposite side of that coin, is are we saying that they will’t tolerate any discomfort? Can we not have a troublesome dialog? I talked to somebody who’s a college professor this week, who stated, “If you wish to use an instance, you possibly can’t use the military or police for instance of something. Because that might be too triggering for individuals.” And I assumed, well, then it’s going to be troublesome to search out issues. Food might be triggering; marriage might be triggering. It’s going to be troublesome to search out examples that really feel inclusive to 100% of the individuals.
So there’s acquired to be some sense that college students can deal with some discomfort, however what we shouldn’t ask them to deal with is outright racism, prejudice, or discrimination and to have the ability to discern between these two issues.
Chris Kresser: Right. And I believe my concern, I’ve quite a lot of considerations, and I respect the way you broke that down, as a result of clearly, we wish to shield susceptible populations from the sorts of abusive conditions that have existed and circumstances that have existed for much too lengthy. When I look round and see what’s occurring right now on this planet politically, socially, and even in my subject of drugs and science, like the extent of vitriol, and the lack to tolerate variations of opinion has reached alarming ranges to me.
The reality that if any individual comes ahead and criticizes a dominant paradigm concept in drugs now, associated to COVID[-19] or another subject, they’re virtually instantly excommunicated and simply principally obliterated off of the map of legitimacy and credibility no matter their credentials, background, experience within the topic space, and many others. And I simply marvel if this is associated not directly. Like this transfer towards extra consolation, this aversion to discomfort is someway tied to our seeming incapacity to tolerate variations of opinion, which to me is like a foundational precept of democracy and the power to have (crosstalk).
Robert Biswas-Diener: Sure, and of science and of friendship.
Chris Kresser: Exactly.
Robert Biswas-Diener: I imply, simply it’s discourse. So, I believe you’re right, and it’s somewhat bit powerful once more to parse the political from the psychological. And in fact, the psychological is what I’m primarily knowledgeable in. But I do suppose we wish to shield individuals, once more, in opposition to direct prejudice or discrimination. But having finished that, or to the power, to the extent we’re in a position to do that, what you need is to bolster individuals, make them really feel extra resilient, make them really feel like, “You know what? I can deal with some irritation. I can deal with somewhat little bit of self-doubt. I can deal with having countervailing proof thrown in my face. I’d all the time need discourse to be respectful. But I perceive that I can interact in an uncomfortable dialog and that it simply is likely to be a distinction of two reliable factors of view.”
Chris Kresser: Right. Yeah. So I believe we desperately want extra of that on this planet that we’re living in immediately. I’m not going to dwell on that as a result of I primarily wish to give attention to this from a extra particular person perspective. Although, in fact, you possibly can’t actually separate [those areas], the political, social, and bigger context with [the] particular person.
Robert Biswas-Diener: I don’t know if I’m leaping forward. But do you thoughts if I remark somewhat bit about that bolstering individuals concept?
Chris Kresser: No, please go forward.
Robert Biswas-Diener: When I used to be writing the e-book you’re referring to, I had an epiphany second, which was, my son needed to do an exercise on a college night time. And I stated this normal parenting factor, like, “If you do your homework, then we’ll be capable to do it.” And he didn’t end his homework. So we weren’t in a position to do the exercise. And I believe, if I wouldn’t have been scripting this e-book, I’d have finished what I had finished 1,000,000 occasions before, which is I’d have stated, “Oh, nevertheless it’s okay, as a result of we will do the exercise this weekend.” Or “Don’t fear; it’ll be alright. We can do it tomorrow for twice as lengthy.”
And basically, what that communicates is you’re feeling the precise reliable emotional response, which is somewhat frustration and somewhat irritation. And what I’m attempting to inform you to do is not really feel that approach, although it is 100% acceptable. I’m saying, “Don’t fear; don’t really feel unhealthy.” And too typically, we strive [to] cheer individuals up or speak them out of those destructive emotional states, and mother and father do that on a regular basis. And on this approach, they’re socializing their youngsters to basically low cost their very own destructive feelings. Like no, you need to really really feel cheerful right now as a substitute of pissed off. On that explicit night time, I stated, “You’re pissed off, and that makes quite a lot of sense. I believe that’s completely the suitable response.” And I simply let it go at that. And sure, my son stated, “I hate having a psychologist as a father.” But actually, I believe, if we might do that from a fair youthful age, identical to, “You’re feeling unhappy; you’re feeling indignant. I’m not going to rescue you from that. You’re frightened. That’s a reliable expertise. Now tolerate it.” It’s like sending them to the fitness center each time and they only strengthen these muscle groups.
Chris Kresser: Yeah, that’s right. It’s so vital. And as a mum or dad, I can undoubtedly relate to that. And I make an effort to do that with our daughter. Because the factor that’s attention-grabbing to me about that is, I believe we’ve all had the expertise the place we’ve been in a spot the place we’re feeling unhappy, or indignant or pissed off, or so-called destructive emotion, and somebody round us says, “Cheer up,” or one thing like that, and we simply wish to punch them within the face. Right?
Robert Biswas-Diener: Totally, completely.
Chris Kresser: It’s not what we wish to hear. Generally, we simply need somebody to be there with us and hear that and perhaps mirror it again not directly or simply really feel like they’re current with us in that expertise. We’re not really asking for them to inform us to really feel any totally different approach than we are. And yeah, although we’ve had that expertise, most likely many extra than one, rather more typically than one time in our life, we nonetheless have the impulse to do that with different individuals, together with our youngsters.
So is that our personal incapacity to tolerate our discomfort that we really feel within the face of another person’s discomfort? Is it our suspicion that another person is not able to dealing with that discomfort on their very own, and that causes discomfort for us? What do you suppose’s occurring there?
Robert Biswas-Diener: Those are nice theories, right? And we must be testing these. I sort of lean in my coronary heart, and this isn’t empirical proof towards the primary clarification. I believe, to a big extent, we will’t tolerate these feelings. So you will have a teenager moping round the home, and feelings are sort of contagious. And right here you are because the mum or dad having fun with your night, and actually, your child’s moping is emotionally inconvenient for you, as a result of it’s bringing you down.
Chris Kresser: Right.
Robert Biswas-Diener: And so that you need them to cheer up so that you possibly can have a nicer emotional expertise.
Chris Kresser: I believe that’s right.
Robert Biswas-Diener: And should you also have been somewhat hardier, I believe you may give them the area for them to become somewhat hardier. And then it wouldn’t be as massive a deal to anyone.
Chris Kresser: Right. So it’s like, “You’re killing my buzz. Please, please cheer up, as a result of I’m attempting to look at this present or learn this e-book or no matter it is.” Yeah.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Exactly.
Chris Kresser: Then it comes again to what you stated, our personal resilience. I do know, that’s sort of a buzzword right now, too. But our personal capability to tolerate a shift in gears. “Okay, I’m sitting right here, I’m attempting to loosen up, and it’s been an extended day. I’m studying a e-book, or I’m watching a TV present or one thing. But my daughter, my son, my spouse, my associate, no matter, is having a special expertise, and do I’ve the capability to shift in that second and be current for what’s occurring there? That’s a ability set or a capability that must be developed over time.
Robert Biswas-Diener: And in all equity, I believe it’s actually exhausting to develop. I believe generally, individuals most likely come on with you. I current myself as an knowledgeable, and it’s straightforward for listeners to suppose, “Oh, this man’s acquired all of it figured out.” Or, “I’ve been doing this methodology for 18 years, and now I’ve acquired it fully dialed in.” I don’t suppose it’s like that. I believe it’s actually, actually powerful. I wrestle with this. I discover myself attempting to speak individuals out of their emotional states. I’m fairly good at catching myself and saying, “What am I doing?” But it’s such an ingrained behavior. I discover myself often attempting to keep away from emotional experiences. I also make an effort to simply expertise them and tolerate them. But I’m not going to blame anybody in the event that they’re not ace at this.
Chris Kresser: Absolutely, yeah. This is a lifetime endeavor. It’s not one thing that we’re simply going to grasp after a few workshops and that’s the final time we’re ever going to have to consider it once more.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Exactly.
Chris Kresser: And that’s vital, too. I believe simply even, for me, at the very least talking personally, simply having empathy and compassion for myself, and recognizing that I’m not going to be excellent, and I’ll most likely by no means be excellent at it, and that I’m doing the best I can. And that really opens up more room and capability for me to, if I’m in a position to be that approach with myself, I discover that I’m typically in a position to give more room to no matter it is that’s inflicting problem for me.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, that is smart.
Chris Kresser: So, we’ve already been speaking about this, however I wish to simply ask you this particular query; perhaps we will get at it differently. When we attempt to suppress or ignore the destructive feelings, what are we actually lacking out on? Or put this a special approach. My listeners are very acquainted with an evolutionary perspective, right? They know that behaviors advanced for a sure function, and that goes for every thing from our need for candy and salty and calorie-dense food, which protected our survival within the pure atmosphere to our important laziness, as a result of that was an vitality conservation technique. And in a pure atmosphere the place we are continuously spending vitality to assemble food and hunt and construct shelter and struggle, it made sense for us to be lazy after we weren’t doing that. So why do we have now destructive feelings in any respect?
Robert Biswas-Diener: I believe you teed it up properly by way of the evolutionary perspective. Our emotion system is an evolutionary adaptation that’s vastly useful to us and that’s a part of our psychological infrastructure for functioning. These aren’t issues to be overcome or vanquished or to be victorious over. They’re identical to our eyes and ears. There are channels of knowledge. So I consider the destructive feelings as being kind of like a radar monitoring system, sort of telling you what’s out there on this planet. And if you expertise the so-called destructive feelings, and psychologists don’t imply unhealthy feelings, we simply imply disagreeable feeling[s], each sends a special message.
So unhappiness, for instance, tells you issues aren’t actually turning out the way in which you anticipated, and perhaps you need to take into account conserving your sources and not throwing extra sources at this, which is why unhappy individuals have a tendency to take a seat round. They’re sitting on the sofa. The emotion’s in a roundabout way inflicting that habits, nevertheless it’s kind of like a foyer, like suggesting, hey, right here’s one thing you may take into account doing. Fear. Fear tells you there’s a menace in your atmosphere and that you may take into account operating away or perhaps combating. Anger also tells you that one thing that you care about is below direct menace, and that it prepares you to defend, that is it’s pushing blood to your extremities and making you bodily aroused, able to defend that factor you care about.
Chris Kresser: Right. And guilt is likely to be one thing associated to our prosocial tribal tendencies.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, as a result of it might be, you’re going to defend, somebody’s stealing your automobile, or somebody coming after your child. I imply, no matter it is.
Chris Kresser: No, no. Sorry, guilt.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Guilt. Oh, yeah. Guilt is an amazing one, and guilt perhaps acquired the worst rap of all these feelings.
Chris Kresser: Yeah.
Robert Biswas-Diener: But guilt simply is a sign to you that you violated your personal code. And it’s sort of saying, hey, you may take into account a course correction. And that’s one of many the explanation why guilt feels so icky. Because that motivates you to take a special plan of action. And if you do, normally aid or acceptance, like some sort of emotional exhale is the outcome. So, will we wish to simply beat ourselves up and really feel guilt for years and years? No. But is your guilt structure practical simply within the second? You steal one thing from a retailer, and then you’re feeling unhealthy about it? Fantastic. I wish to live in a society the place individuals really feel that sort of guilt.
Chris Kresser: Right. Take that to the opposite excessive. What would the world be like with no guilt? That’s scary; that’s psychopathic individuals simply performing in their very own self-interest with no mechanism for placing the brakes on behaviors that may violate their very own code or anybody else’s code.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, completely. So if you begin occupied with feelings as data, simply sort of telling you a message, that adjustments your relationship. So like, “Oh, yeah, I’m feeling actually jealous right now.” If that jealousy had a voice, what wouldn’t it be saying to you? What’s it telling you in regards to the world round you? If it had an agenda, what’s it encouraging you to do? And I believe it’s value asking these sorts of questions and simply being in dialogue with your feelings, as a result of that makes them appear rather more like probably useful messengers and a lot much less like one thing that you need to be at conflict with.
Chris Kresser: I don’t actually wish to go down this highway, as a result of it will be a giant tangent, however I’ve been considering so much about free will. I don’t know the way a lot this pursuits you. But it’s attention-grabbing. Basically, my interpretation of what you have been simply saying is don’t take your feelings so personally. What if we look at them as simply helpful data, and that doesn’t imply that they’re not going to be, that that’s going to change how they really feel, or the subjective expertise, nevertheless it may change how we reply to them not directly if we’re in a position to see them in that gentle. And that’s attention-grabbing to consider on this entire dialog about whether or not we have now free will. And the core argument for individuals who consider that we don’t is that these ideas and feelings and experiences come up in consciousness but we’re not those that are doing these ideas or feelings or experiences. They are rising, we will reply to them, but we’re not controlling the script, so to talk.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Well, that’s attention-grabbing. And there is this debate, and it will get fairly metaphysical, sort of like are your feelings you or is there kind of a you that’s separate out of your feelings.
Chris Kresser: Right.
Robert Biswas-Diener: And then, that latter camp should you can observe your feelings, well, then there have to be some you that’s separate out of your feelings that can look at them. And that’s sort of cool as a result of then you don’t essentially really feel overpowered; you simply really feel like oh, yeah, they’re up on stage. I see what they’re doing. I’m observing them. And they’re not essentially me. Some individuals discover that very useful. Also, although they’re sort of inside you. So I see the opposite level of it, too.
Chris Kresser: Right. So I’m going to change gears somewhat bit right here, as a result of one of the crucial provocative concepts that I got here throughout in your e-book, The Upside of Your Dark Side, and I’ve learn this before and in different sources, is that people are fairly horrible at making choices that result in happiness. And to begin with, why is that? Because I’ve some questions on even why that could be from an evolutionary perspective, for instance. But why is that and what are the implications of that? What will we make of the actual fact that we’re not superb at predicting what will make us completely happy?
Robert Biswas-Diener: I believe I’d say sort of a milder model of that.
Chris Kresser: Okay.
Robert Biswas-Diener: I believe individuals get it somewhat bit right however make errors. So I don’t suppose they’re getting it actually mistaken. They’re not making horrible choices; they’re making wise choices that simply aren’t paying off as a lot as they suppose. So one factor of this is referred to as efficient court docket forecasting. It’s only a fancy [term] that means do you suppose this will make you cheerful sooner or later? If I eat this cake, will it make me completely happy sooner or later? If my workforce wins the playoffs, will it make me completely happy at that time? And individuals typically get the route right. You suppose your workforce profitable will most likely make you be like a thumbs up, and in case your workforce loses, it’ll be a thumbs down. And it turns out that that is true. The downside is, we exaggerate in our personal minds the period of the impact and the depth of the impact.
So you suppose, “If my candidate for president wins or conversely loses, I’m going to really feel this predictable approach in an excessive quantity and for an extended time period.” But the reality is, we don’t. These are minor blips to us. Another impediment is that we generally don’t have the sensation of permission to pursue what’s completely happy. Or we someway do make errors in that prioritizing some issues. I do that on a regular basis with workshops I give. I stated, “Hey, go do one thing to make your self completely happy and take 10 minutes, or no matter it’s going to be. And individuals have good instincts. They go for a stroll exterior, they name their youngsters, they take a nap, they stretch out, they do yoga, and they’re not making themselves completely completely happy. But these appear to be little boosts.
But a few of them simply test e mail. And I sort of say, “Well, you thought that was going to make you cheerful?” And what they’re actually saying is, “Well, I’ve quite a lot of stress at work, and I assumed this is able to reduce my stress.” And as a result of these destructive feelings can really feel so urgent on us, issues like stress and fear, I believe generally we feed them first before occupied with issues like self-compassion, taking breaks, and so forth.
Chris Kresser: I believe this may need been in certainly one of Ken Sheldon’s papers. I not too long ago interviewed him on the podcast, and because of you for that intro once more. What in regards to the reality that we are likely to, I is likely to be phrasing this incorrectly or getting the nuance not being precise with that. But we low cost the quantity, the affect, the carrying off impact. So let’s say, “Oh, I’m going to purchase this new automobile. I’ve needed it for a very long time. It’s going to make me completely happy.” We purchase the automobile, we’re completely happy for a day, and then it’s simply our automobile now.
Robert Biswas-Diener: That’s completely right. And I’ll offer you an amazing instance. For anybody listening, should you’re carrying sneakers right now, I would like you to consider the final time that you completely appreciated these sneakers and have been like, “These sneakers are wonderful.” And then I would like you to consider the day you obtain these sneakers, and that little jolt of pleasure, how a lot you appreciated them, how enjoyable it was to strive them on or obtain them within the mail. And you possibly can see how fully you will have tailored.
Chris Kresser: Right, yeah. The Buddhist, the idea of that is the hungry ghost, right? The concept [of] that massive, massive stomach with [a] very slim neck that it doesn’t matter what you place in there, it may’t fulfill the starvation.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yes.
Chris Kresser: It’s attention-grabbing that that idea has been round for a very long time.
Robert Biswas-Diener: In phrases of happiness choices, one of many issues that is typically beneficial by way of spending cash on happiness is spending cash on experiences somewhat than on materials purchases. So, if in case you have the identical amount of cash that you may spend on, let’s say, a pair of sneakers, or on going horseback driving or taking a cooking class or no matter it [is], perhaps that’s an costly pair of sneakers. But actually, by rights, the expertise, issues like horseback driving or cooking programs, are going to pay off longer and higher happiness dividends, since you’ll be capable to keep in mind them fondly; you gained’t adapt to them, [and] they really change you and aid you develop. Whereas you simply become accustomed to most of your materials objects.
Chris Kresser: Right. That is smart. So there’s one other distinction you make, which is between wanting and liking, and how these two experiences affect our happiness. Can you say extra about that?
Robert Biswas-Diener: Absolutely. To me, this is a revelatory notion. And this is really simply right in our mind are totally different programs. You have a system for wanting issues, and you will have a separate system for liking issues. And to know the excellence between wanting and liking, take into account a toddler [who’s] at a retailer, sees a shiny toy, and she desires it a lot. “Please, please, will you get it? I would like it.” And the quantity of urge for food for it, the urge for food of wanting is so consuming. And then you buy it, you carry it home, and the quantity of liking of the toy isn’t corresponding to the quantity of wanting. The wanting is like this voracious urge for food, and the quantity of liking [is] kind of like a light, yeah, that’s cool.
Chris Kresser: Right.
Robert Biswas-Diener: And I believe it’s nice to know that these two issues are distinct, as a result of within the grownup world, this occurs on a regular basis. People, for instance, really feel the pull of, “I wish to be promoted at work. I’m going to have extra supervisory energy, an even bigger finances, a greater workplace,” and they don’t cease to suppose in the event that they’ll like the brand new function. Like, “Oh, now, I’m going to be in committee conferences on a regular basis. Now, I’m going to have to put in writing studies; I’m not really going to get to do the day-to-day work that I used to like and discover invigorating.”
So I believe, wanting previous the desires and occupied with the likes. I do know, in my very own life, I see this on a regular basis with cookies, as a result of I actually are likely to need cookies. And I virtually by no means like a cookie as a lot as I assumed that I would love it, as a lot as I needed it.
Chris Kresser: Right. Well, yeah, and this occurs in relationships, right? How typically has it occurred to us or individuals we all know in our lives, the place if we’re pursuing somebody, and then we find yourself in that relationship, and it’s not what we thought it will be within the pursuit. [There are] so many ways that this will play out in life. I agree with you; it’s a extremely revelatory distinction and probably life-changing should you actually permit it to sink in. But I believe it requires then the power to witness the wanting, and then to interact in a technique of inquiry across the potential liking there. And how do you method that? Is there a approach with your purchasers that you invite them to domesticate a greater capability to estimate the ratio between wanting and liking for one thing, for instance? Do you realize what I’m saying?
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, this is an amazing query. And dammit, if it’s not simply one other occasion of it’s exhausting work. There’s no straightforward hack for this. But first, you’re right; you need to acknowledge that it’s the need, and the need is artificially highly effective. Which is why generally it’s good to simply delay issues, right? But why don’t I simply press pause for twenty-four hours? Why don’t I not reply to this e mail, although I actually wish to? Why do I not buy this factor from Amazon, although I actually wish to? I’m simply going to pause. So that’s the popularity of the need. But then understanding what the expertise could be like, and we do that in ways giant and small. Someone says, “Hey, would you like a chew of my cake?” And you say, “Well, how is it?” You’re kind of asking them to be your taster. “How a lot do you prefer it?” They may say, “It’s okay.” And then you say, “Oh well, then that’s most likely not value it to me.” Or perhaps you need that promotion I discussed. It could be cool to go and interview somebody who’s already in that function about what their day-to-day work is like. Not simply assume you realize. See what they like and don’t like about it. But once more, these items are effortful and require somewhat little bit of elbow grease.
Chris Kresser: It looks like there’s a time dimension to liking, as well. So utilizing a food instance, you need the cookie, and then if you eat the cookie, there is likely to be an preliminary liking, however then towards the tip of the cookie, the liking [is] not as a lot because it was to start with. And then should you occur to be somebody who’s very sensitive to sugar, perhaps three hours later, the subsequent morning after you ate the 4 cookies that you needed, you’re actively disliking [it]. So I also marvel about like, is that kind of time dimension or totally different facets of how liking transpires over time factored into this?
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, I undoubtedly suppose it’s an angle. And on the opposite dimension, it’s kind of the depth dimension. And what I believe is curious, so that you’re saying you get this massive spike in depth; you eat your first couple bites of the cookie, you get somewhat sugar rush, [and] that legitimately feels good. But then it’s acquired diminishing returns, and then it even turns into, maybe for some individuals, a destructive over time. But your wanting was fairly aroused; [it] was sort of a spike. It’s virtually just like the wanting is the best half. Like should you might simply go away it at that, that’s as invigorating and satisfying because the sugar hit.
Chris Kresser: I learn a narrative that was fairly heartbreaking. I can’t keep in mind what the e-book was or the place I got here throughout it. It was a couple of couple who didn’t make some huge cash. But they have been pretty frugal, and they saved cash for like 25 years for this retirement journey that they had envisioned for his or her entire life collectively. They made some sacrifices, and they raised youngsters throughout that time, however they didn’t go on holidays or spend a lot cash, and they have been actually centered on this mega retirement cruise journey that they have been going to take after they retired. And you most likely know the place this is going.
It was heartbreaking to learn it since you knew the place it was going. But they needed for 25 years. And then they had the expertise, and it was so disappointing for each of them. And what I got here away feeling like was, it will have been higher in the event that they had by no means finished it. Because they loved the desirous to some extent. They seemed ahead to it, it produced emotions of enjoyment, they talked about it, [and] it was one thing that they might envision far off sooner or later. And it will even have been extra satisfying, I believe, for them to simply by no means have finished it than to have finished it and have the liking be such a disappointment.
Robert Biswas-Diener: That’s right. Although, you may think about an alternate the place they did find yourself liking it.
Chris Kresser: True.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Right.
Chris Kresser: Maybe. I imply, perhaps it’s exhausting. If you’re occupied with one thing for 25 years, it’s going to be exhausting to live as much as the wanting that occurs over that time period.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Sure, positive. But I wouldn’t wish to say to my pal who desires to go to Paris, “I’m simply going to inform you, you’re most likely not going to prefer it as a lot as you suppose. So you need to save your self the cash. You ought to simply look on the footage of the Eiffel Tower.”
Chris Kresser: Or give your ticket to me.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah. Just look on the footage on-line. But I do suppose, to carry this again to the destructive emotion and tolerance, there’s one thing in regards to the wanting, however not getting that is that similar tolerance of that destructive emotional state. And should you can tolerate that, in the identical approach that kind of like being curious, or the tip of the tongue phenomenon are kind of unsettling, right? They don’t really feel good. It’s not like “Oh, nice. I can’t keep in mind the title of this individual. I want I might.” It feels somewhat bit icky. But the extra you possibly can tolerate that, the wanting, the higher you’re going to be positioned, I believe, to make choices that swimsuit [you].
Chris Kresser: [I have] a few questions to complete up. We’ve established that destructive feelings play an vital evolutionary function that’s nonetheless related to us immediately. They assist us to acknowledge areas the place we’re perhaps inflicting hurt and we don’t wish to, or we’re shifting in a route that may not be the best route for us and the entire different issues that you talked about. And but, it’s nonetheless troublesome to permit ourselves to expertise destructive feelings as a result of they don’t really feel good. So what are a few of your, I’ve my very own, however what are a few of your methods that you follow your self or that you advocate in your purchasers if you train that assist individuals to domesticate extra capability and willingness to expertise so-called destructive feelings?
Robert Biswas-Diener: Sure. I’ll offer you three. Hopefully, I can keep in mind them all; they’ll be fairly fast.
Chris Kresser: Great, three sounds good.
Robert Biswas-Diener: One, I strive [to] consider what is this emotion telling me? Like, I’m indignant right now. I don’t say to myself, why am I indignant? Because that simply begs for some explanatory concept, right? Well, I’m indignant as a result of everybody’s a jerk, or one thing like that. But what is this anger telling me? What would this anger need me to do? And very not often [does it want] me to punch somebody within the face. Like, this anger desires you to stay up for your self. Oh, well that’s attention-grabbing. So the anger is seeing some menace. And simply even that sort of psychological technique of questioning my anger, contemplating my anger, helps make it really feel extra gentle. It takes the sting off. It nonetheless feels unsettling; I nonetheless have that feeling in me. But it’s not a giant spike of anger; it’s a tolerable smaller quantity of anger.
The second factor I do is referred to as emotion differentiation. A flowery phrase for labeling your feelings and understanding that feelings are typically sophisticated, and not simply one by one. So it might not simply be [that] I really feel indignant. It could also be, I really feel indignant and disenchanted, and somewhat responsible. And the extra you possibly can sift aside all of the little angles that match collectively in your emotion, that also takes the sting off. It’s humorous, and there’s analysis on this, you possibly can even see individuals loosen up into their feelings. You’re not eliminating that anger, disappointment, [or] guilt. People are simply relaxed into it and sort of accepting of it. So having the ability to label every a part of the emotion understanding that there is likely to be two or three feelings at play at any given time.
And then the third, for individuals who are acquainted, I believe, Wim Hof and his icy showers and whatnot are sort of a well-liked factor today.
Chris Kresser: You’re speaking to the right individuals right here.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Okay, good, good. So, you may begin with your 10 seconds of chilly blast within the bathe, and it makes you gasp, and wow, that’s a extremely intense expertise. But you possibly can undoubtedly tolerate it for 10 seconds. Maybe you possibly can’t tolerate it for 2 minutes or 5 minutes. And I believe the identical factor goes for emotion, kind of that child step like, “Okay, I’m actually pissed off right now. And I’m simply going to let that frustration bathe over me and tolerate it. And all I’ve to do is tolerate it for 60 seconds, like only one minute of this; I’m not going to ask extra of myself than that. But I’m simply going to flex these muscle groups and construct that quantity of tolerance.” And I believe that will be useful over time, as well.
Chris Kresser: I really like these methods. So simply to recap, we have now asking what the emotion can inform us, what is it attempting to inform us; the second is labeling the feelings, which have a tendency to return in teams, and not perhaps be clearly differentiated, however somewhat little bit of effort there will be useful as a result of it tends to diffuse the response considerably. And then the final step is simply child steps or shrinking the period of time that you’re committing to expertise that emotion as a approach of inching into it somewhat than going entire hog. Those all seem to be very efficient methods to me.
I used to be going to ask about youngsters and how this pertains to training and parenting. But we’ve already talked somewhat bit about that, and I can see how all three of those methods could be very related in comparison with perspective.
Robert Biswas-Diener: I’m curious, Chris, you stated you had a technique. I used to be interested in yours.
Chris Kresser: Yeah. Well, I believe that it’s vital, [for] the entire methods that you simply talked about, there’s one thing foundational that’s required to even make use of these methods, which is self-awareness. Right? Like, should you’re not even conscious of what’s occurring, since you’re so consumed by the expertise or so reactive to what’s occurring, I believe it’s very troublesome to interact in that sort of course of. So for me, some sort of consciousness follow, no matter that is likely to be for folk. For me, it’s been a meditation follow for over 30 years now, and that’s simply the way in which I look at it. It’s very mundane for me in a sure approach. I simply look at meditation as consciousness follow, working towards being conscious of what’s occurring each internally and in my atmosphere. When I simply sit there for half-hour a day, that’s basically what I’m doing. I’m simply cultivating that capability to concentrate on what’s occurring. And I really feel like that supplies extra capability for me to witness and even be capable to label and even be capable to make choices about how I’m going to reply. So I believe that’s what I’d say has been instrumental for me.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, I believe that’s an amazing level, particularly simply in selling the attention since you [have] to have the ability to catch it in the intervening time and notice it. So many individuals are overwhelmed with anger, and it simply appears like that is their reliable expertise, as a substitute of wait, what’s occurring right here? I’m noticing one thing.
Chris Kresser: Right.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah.
Chris Kresser: Some layer of having the ability to witness and narrate what’s occurring is, and what’s been attention-grabbing for me as a mum or dad is to see, is simply to look at that throughout the arc of improvement. You haven’t any expectation that a two- or three-year-old will be capable to do that, right? They are one with their expertise, and that’s lovely in a approach. They’re 100% no matter is occurring inside them; there’s no separation in any respect. There’s no frontal cortex or perform that allows them to say, “Oh, wow, I’m actually indignant right now and that’s why I’m dumping this bowl of food on the ground.” No, they’re simply dumping the bowl of food on the ground. But we hope that as adults, we have now that further no matter you wish to name that further layer, that pause the place we discover the anger and as a substitute of dumping the bowl of food on the ground, we make a special selection. And for me, that’s the place the attention follow is available in, is simply strengthening that muscle and creating extra of that area so that I’ve extra freedom by way of what selection I make in that second.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, completely.
Chris Kresser: Is there any contraindication or let’s say any state of affairs during which you suppose experiencing destructive emotion will be dangerous? Or put a special approach, is there a time when distraction and avoiding or suppressing destructive emotion is really an adaptive response? I’m considering of extreme trauma, or what when overwhelm is current. Is there a time and a spot for suppressing and ignoring destructive feelings?
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, I’d say extreme trauma, for positive. And these could be cases the place it is [an] emotion of such acute, intense, and overwhelming nature. I’m considering of bereavement, for instance. I’d be loath to say to somebody, perhaps you need to simply meditate and actually get into that bereavement. Some individuals would say that, in fact, however I’m not going to fault somebody in the event that they wish to check out for a second. And I believe individuals do even disassociate naturally, as a result of they are sort of checking out of this overwhelming emotional expertise. And we also suppose that we all know that there are temper problems, right? Depression that appears to intervene with individuals that goes on for lengthy durations of time. And actually, that’s [a] lengthy time period. If you felt pervasive guilt throughout two weeks. And I don’t imply, like, “Oh, I had an affair; I embezzled from my firm,” or one thing that, like over one thing minor, that may appear kind of out of proportion. Or should you have been like, “I’m so depressed; I really feel hopeless, torpid, I can’t sleep, and this has been occurring for two, 3, 4 weeks.” Those seem to be destructive feelings that are not working for you, right? That may want intervention of some sort.
Chris Kresser: Right. So what you’re saying is there’s a degree the place the destructive feelings are serving us from an evolutionary perspective. They’re giving us some sort of helpful data. But in fact, everyone knows that there’s also a pathological expression or at the very least there’s a approach that destructive feelings can transcend that and simply become one thing that intervene with our capability to perform well on this planet that we’re living in and can intervene with our well-being.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, completely. In which case, you intervene, and I believe, and this is an attention-grabbing factor, you possibly can’t actually intervene straight in emotion. That is you possibly can’t, identical to you couldn’t cease your coronary heart should you needed simply by occupied with it. Your coronary heart’s so vital so that you can be alive that nonconscious programs are operating it. Same factor, our feelings are a part of our survival structure, so we will’t flip them off. And so actually, how we intervene in emotion is both by way of our body, suppose exercise, psychotropic remedy, drink a glass of wine, no matter it is, or by way of our thoughts, meditation, cognitive reframing, remedy, speaking to a pal, no matter.
Chris Kresser: Yeah. I don’t suppose I’ve talked to you that a lot about this, nevertheless it simply popped up if you have been speaking about numerous interventions. But what’s your tackle the rising curiosity in psychedelics, and notably for therapeutic functions, just like the analysis that’s occurring with MDMA-assisted psychotherapy, and ketamine and psilocybin. It appears to me that a part of what is occurring there, notably with MDMA and also with ketamine, is that generally individuals get very caught in these intense destructive feelings and states, and these psychedelics allow them to expertise life, even when briefly, with out being comparatively freed from the state that they’ve been in, these destructive feelings that they’ve been caught in for therefore, so lengthy. And it offers them a way of hope, and, in some circumstances, even completely, or at the very least semi-permanently shifts their emotional state. So I don’t know if this is one thing you will have paid a lot consideration to or take into consideration a lot.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, I’m inspired. But I like that they’re doing the analysis. I don’t suppose that someway Prozac or Xanax must be accepted medicines. But MDMA shouldn’t be as a result of it’s traditionally been related as kind of a membership drug. And if there are therapeutic advantages, I believe we must be testing these. It looks like there’s some preliminary and mounting proof, so I’m inspired by that. But I also wish to warning individuals that preliminary proof doesn’t imply now you need to simply go out and do all of the MDMA you need as a result of it’s clearly good for you.
Chris Kresser: Right. Not to say that going out and shopping for MDMA on the road not often leads to you getting precise MDMA, or at the very least not solely MDMA. There’s usually quite a lot of different stuff in there. So we’re nonetheless a ways from, such as you stated, being sure that this is an intervention that ought to become extra widespread and then, having the ability to go to your physician and get this prescription and get the right sort of supervision and assist to make it an excellent expertise. We’re not there but. But I’m also inspired by the potential.
And I had Michael Mithoefer who is the [lead author] of MAPS, who’s doing all of the analysis, on the podcast some time again, and we had an excellent chat. And I’m actually glad that somebody of his caliber is attempting to comply with the right procedures for investigating this the way in which it must be finished before it’s broadly beneficial.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, completely. And as a scientist, that’s what I like about it. Someone can inform me they went to an ayahuasca social gathering, and it was nice for them. But that feels much less compelling to me than [running] scientific trials at 10 totally different areas below managed circumstances.
Chris Kresser: Right. And in contrast this with present therapies and confirmed that it was more practical and safer, and many others. So, yeah.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Exactly.
Chris Kresser: Well, Robert, [it’s] all the time a pleasure to talk with you. I do know the listeners are going to get so much out of this. Where can individuals discover out extra about your work? I do know you’ve acquired quite a lot of totally different pots on the range, so to talk. I do know you will have various kinds of work for various kinds of individuals. But is there anyplace you wish to inform individuals they will discover out extra?
Robert Biswas-Diener: Sure. So something about teaching or my weblog posts are at PositiveAcorn.com. My private web site is IntentionalHappiness.com. And the e-book you referenced is The Upside of Your Dark Side.
Chris Kresser: So one last item on a extra private notice before we end. I’m conscious that your father, Ed Diener, handed away not too long ago and that he was an enormous within the subject of optimistic psychology and made such an unlimited contribution to a lot of what we’re speaking about now. So I simply questioned should you needed to say just a few phrases about him on this discussion board.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, thanks. I believe that’s nice. My father, Ed Diener, spent extra than 40 years learning happiness, extra than 300 or perhaps even 400 publications. He was one of many prime 1000 most extremely cited scientists in any self-discipline in all of historical past. And he is, partially, why we get to discuss issues like happiness and optimistic psychology as a result of he boldly, many many years in the past, stated, “I’m not going to examine depression, though there’s nothing mistaken with learning depression. But I actually wish to examine what’s right with individuals and examine how individuals can live good, fulfilling, significant, and joyful lives.” So it’s good, though he’s handed away, I undoubtedly really feel like his affect lives on and that he has affected so many, tens of 1000’s, a whole lot of 1000’s of individuals all over the world.
Chris Kresser: And he gave us you, as well, which is one other reward.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Yeah, there’s that. There’s that, as well, positive.
Chris Kresser: The selection that he made then was a daring selection at that level. So many individuals now are learning optimistic psychology. That’s not a revolutionary profession selection. But at that time, right me if I’m mistaken, that was not a pre-approved route to take.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Absolutely not.
Chris Kresser: It was by no means clear that that would result in an illustrious profession. It was a giant threat that he took [in] doing that.
Robert Biswas-Diener: As not too long ago as 2000, I had individuals telling me personally happiness is a waste of time; it’s a idiot’s errand. It doesn’t, like all this positivity is simply naive. And that was simply 20 years in the past. So think about what the local weather was like within the late ‘70s, early ‘80s. So yeah, I undoubtedly suppose he was brave.
Chris Kresser: Right. Well, a lot gratitude and appreciation to Ed Diener.
Robert Biswas-Diener: Thank you.
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